13 Reasons Why

This year, Netflix released their newest hit: 13 Reasons Why. Based on the book of the same name by Jay Asher, this show follows the suicide of high schooler Hannah Baker and the reasons why she did what she did. Prior to her death, she recorded a series of 13 cassette tapes in which she revealed what she went through and called out those who led her to suicide. The show has raised a lot of controversy and the reviews are mixed. There is one question that stands out above all else: did the show glorify suicide?

After watching the show, I spent a lot of time thinking about my response to this question. I think it is more difficult than a simple yes or no. Besides the suicide of the protagonist, the show handles a lot of real life issues that are important to talk about such as rape, depression, and substance abuse. Personally, I took the show to be about so much more than suicide. When I watched it, I had to stop between episodes because there were so many issues being addressed that I was a little overwhelmed. To me, that meant the show was doing its job: it made me think.

What the show does well is shine light on issues that often get overlooked. It emphasizes the importance of the way you treat others, how far help can go, and the reality that everyone is fighting a battle. High school is hard, and today with the influence of social media and technology, it’s even harder. 13 Reasons Why does not glamorize the harsh realities of a high school in my opinion. Dialogue needs to be started so people can educate themselves. If more people are educated on these issues, society can start taking the steps necessary to help prevent them.

Do I think the show could have done without including her suicide scene? Yes; but, I also think the inclusion of this moment made a powerful statement and forced viewers to acknowledge that this is a reality. I do not believe it glorified her suicide. Was it difficult to watch? Incredibly! In my eyes, this means that the show was successful. It made me really think about if I knew anyone who could silently be suffering. I know that I am now more conscious of my actions. Schools that are banning the show from being talked about are handling it wrong in my opinion. They should be holding an assembly to teach the students that these issues are very real and important. People should be encouraging those who watch it to talk to others about it. (That being said, I do think the age restriction should be followed because it is mature and heavy content.)

13 Reasons Why gets people talking. Whether someone is discussing why they hated it or why they loved it, they are still actively engaging in dialogue. The show was well crafted and the acting was a job well done for all involved. I would recommend the show.

It’s important to know that help is available. 13 Reasons Why started discussion about tough topics that need to continue. Like the show, hate the show, the issues it deals with are what’s important.